relationships
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I Cried Wolf 🤷🏻♀️
Honestly, life is just so hard, and it’s really nice when you meet someone who helps you look at yourself through a different lens. It’s hard to see what you’re doing wrong when you don’t know what you’re doing is wrong. We’ve had ups and downs, but let’s see where God takes us from here. Continue reading
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The Cage is Your Thoughts
Today, I saw a quote that reads, “You will be free once you realize the cage is made of thoughts,” and it couldn’t be further from the truth. I know many women fall victim to their thoughts when they’re on their periods, and for me, I feel like that’s when the devil knows to attack Continue reading
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Don’t Make A Promise You Won’t Keep.
So, John and I have not been seeing eye to eye lately. And quite truthfully, not on anything. Several months ago, when we decided to give our relationship another chance, we talked about our futures and how we would work together to reach our goals. I expressed my worries about returning to school and how Continue reading
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Heart Break P2

For the purpose of this story, I will name my boyfriend “John.” When John and I first got together, I prayed that famous prayer: “God, if he is not for me, remove him from my life. And as we all know, the Lord does not take long to answer that prayer. However, we were together Continue reading
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Let Me Tell You About Heart Break. P1

I want to start by saying that I wish I had allowed myself to go through the motions of feeling my feelings. I denied myself what it would have been like to feel such deep emotion. I was in complete denial of the sadness I felt. I used alcohol and marijuana to mask the despair. Continue reading
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Am I the Problem ?
Lately, it seems like I can’t talk without offending someone. Not that I intend to offend anyone, but life has made me feel so defeated. Those around me either take what I say wrong or they take what I say out of context. To clarify, I don’t say things that shouldn’t be said, nor do Continue reading
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Tough Questions
Whenever a friend confides in me about problems in their relationships with their partner, I ask them, “Is this something you are willing to deal with one year, five years, or ten years from now?” I have a friend who has a hard time when I ask her this question. She feels like I’m telling Continue reading
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When Do You Know Your Are Out Growing a Friend?
I want to talk about something controversial. And if this is not a topic you want to read about or agree with, I ask that you are kind and no mean words are said. This past week, I was having a conversation with a really good friend of mine. She is someone who I run Continue reading