life
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Dear Future Me.
What are you most excited about for the future? Having it together. I want to be able to stand on my own two feet financially. And I hope the future me has figured out what I will do with the rest of my life. I feel like life is passing me by, and I can’t Continue reading
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Heart Break P2

For the purpose of this story, I will name my boyfriend “John.” When John and I first got together, I prayed that famous prayer: “God, if he is not for me, remove him from my life. And as we all know, the Lord does not take long to answer that prayer. However, we were together Continue reading
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Let Me Tell You About Heart Break. P1

I want to start by saying that I wish I had allowed myself to go through the motions of feeling my feelings. I denied myself what it would have been like to feel such deep emotion. I was in complete denial of the sadness I felt. I used alcohol and marijuana to mask the despair. Continue reading
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Am I the Problem ?
Lately, it seems like I can’t talk without offending someone. Not that I intend to offend anyone, but life has made me feel so defeated. Those around me either take what I say wrong or they take what I say out of context. To clarify, I don’t say things that shouldn’t be said, nor do Continue reading
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Tough Questions
Whenever a friend confides in me about problems in their relationships with their partner, I ask them, “Is this something you are willing to deal with one year, five years, or ten years from now?” I have a friend who has a hard time when I ask her this question. She feels like I’m telling Continue reading
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When Do You Know Your Are Out Growing a Friend?
I want to talk about something controversial. And if this is not a topic you want to read about or agree with, I ask that you are kind and no mean words are said. This past week, I was having a conversation with a really good friend of mine. She is someone who I run Continue reading