A Girls Honesty

So, John and I have not been seeing eye to eye lately. And quite truthfully, not on anything. Several months ago, when we decided to give our relationship another chance, we talked about our futures and how we would work together to reach our goals. I expressed my worries about returning to school and how hard paying for school is. John then told me that he would pay for my schooling so I didn’t have to worry about working to pay for school. That way, I could concentrate on my academics. Well, the date of the deadline to pay for school was approaching, and I told him, “Hey, payment for school is due in about a month on this date.” then I reminded him a couple weeks before and then a week before, and then a couple days before and finally I reminded him the day of. His response was, “Okay, well, keep me updated.”

By that point, I was confused as to why he didn’t offer ways for him to pay. I felt that I had already given him enough reminders where he could have been like, “Okay, tell me how much money to send you, or I’ll send you pictures of my card so you can pay it, or pay it now and Ill bring you cash later” anything that indicated that he was going to do what he said he was going to do. At that point, I didn’t bother asking for money or reminding him. Two days later, he still hadn’t asked me if I paid for school or if I could get on a payment plan. I took offense to this because this man asks me questions about the most minor things in my life but didn’t bother to ask about something so important. I then told him how hurt I was about the whole situation, but things haven’t been the same. We haven’t addressed the situation entirely because I still feel so confused. Not because he didn’t pay for my school but because he made me a promise he didn’t plan on keeping. I feel very hurt and disappointed about the whole situation, and I am having difficulty addressing my emotions. I know he wants to talk about it, but I still feel betrayed.